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Boundary-Setting Scripts

Psychologist Harriet Lerner points out that true intimacy can only occur between two separate "I"s—the "we" cannot devour the "me." Boundaries are not for pushing the other person…

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Psychologist Harriet Lerner points out that true intimacy can only occur between two separate "I"s—the "we" cannot devour the "me." Boundaries are not for pushing the other person…

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