At 2 AM, you stare at the ceiling, replaying the day’s argument in your mind. Was it triggered by trivial matters like an uncapped toothpaste tube, or did your partner’s absence d…
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One partner enthusiastically shares a breakthrough at work, eager for a response; the other keeps their head down, scrolling through their phone, occasionally offering a perfunctory 'mm-hmm.' In moments like these, the disappointed partner often wonders, 'Do they even care about me anymore?' Meanwhile, the avoidant partner might think, 'I’m just tired and need some quiet time.'
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